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*BlackFox · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 7923 **Location:**

Well, once in awhile... people do have their own limit about
What is right and what is wrong.

.curve · **Posted:** Sat Feb 01, 2014 8:51 pm

BuDo wrote:

Aventus wrote:

It was a joke, you need to tone the butthurt down a notch. Someone said a stupid "racist" joke and you are acting like they smacked your mom.

You call that butt hurt?...

Bro, you seem to be suffering from intense pain in the gluteus maximus region. I prescribe a healthy dose of man-the-****-up and call back tomorrow with results.

Also call the hospital if your erection lasts more than 4 hours.

BuDo wrote:

Intention matters but doesn't carry as much weight as how a message is perceived...And assuming it should be perceived as how you intend it is presumptuous and shortsighted (especially with racial jokes)....No one is a mind reader and we tend to view things differently at times based on numerous factors....The humorous/sarcastic/unintentional puns might even be perceived as such and still not be appreciated....

Like I said: everyone perceives things differently. What's funny to me might not be funny to someone else, but if my intentions were to be funny then I'm doing no wrong. I'm not going to filter myself because someone somewhere in the world might get offended. No one wants to live that care bear politically correct life and no one should be expected to.

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

.curve wrote:

BuDo wrote:

Aventus wrote:

It was a joke, you need to tone the butthurt down a notch. Someone said a stupid "racist" joke and you are acting like they smacked your mom.

You call that butt hurt?...

Bro, you seem to be suffering from intense pain in the gluteus maximus region. I prescribe a healthy dose of man-the-****-up and call back tomorrow with results.

Also call the hospital if your erection lasts more than 4 hours.

BuDo wrote:

Intention matters but doesn't carry as much weight as how a message is perceived...And assuming it should be perceived as how you intend it is presumptuous and shortsighted (especially with racial jokes)....No one is a mind reader and we tend to view things differently at times based on numerous factors....The humorous/sarcastic/unintentional puns might even be perceived as such and still not be appreciated....

Like I said: everyone perceives things differently. What's funny to me might not be funny to someone else, but if my intentions were to be funny then I'm doing no wrong. I'm not going to filter myself because someone somewhere in the world might get offended. No one wants to live that care bear politically correct life and no one should be expected to.

If really actually believe that then you should try leaving your house from the protecting of your computer screen and go to some neighborhood were mostly one particular race/group hangs out and start your "non intentional" racial jokes and see if they understand....even when you explain to them its just a joke.....

Aventus · **Posted:** Sat Feb 01, 2014 11:16 pm

I think you might be the one who needs to go outside if you think everyones going to flip a tit when you say a joke.

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

Aventus wrote:

I think you might be the one who needs to go outside if you think everyones going to flip a tit when you say a joke.

I don't think everyone will so chill....but the chances of someone taking offense is great..... The web becomes a protection haven for a bunch of cowards and idiots to shine...Protection from the tangible disdain and resentment that comes from the real world...Assuming he's not an actual full blown racist here in pretense...His racist joke sorta made me reflect on that and is the main reasoning behind my argument....

Edit:

.curve · **Posted:** Sun Feb 02, 2014 1:41 am

BuDo wrote:

Aventus wrote:

I think you might be the one who needs to go outside if you think everyones going to flip a tit when you say a joke.

I don't think everyone will so chill....but the chances of someone taking offense is great..... The web becomes a protection haven for a bunch of cowards and idiots to shine...Protection from the tangible disdain and resentment that comes from the real world...Assuming he's not an actual full blown racist here in pretense...His racist joke sorta made me reflect on that and is the main reasoning behind my argument....

Edit:

The chances of someone taking any small thing I do offensively are already great. That's just how the world is and unless you are super politically correct all the time, someone's bound to get offended.

Also there's a giant difference between being a racist and playing to a stereotype. It's a stereotype that asians love rice, although every asian friend of mine has a pot of white rice ready to go at all times, and so it's harmless to poke fun at. If I were to say I hate those chinky eyed gooks, then yes, that could be considered racist.

Huge difference between both of those statements.

Also no offense to anyone by what I said, just making my point.

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BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

.curve wrote:

The chances of someone taking any small thing I do offensively are already great. That's just how the world is and unless you are super politically correct all the time, someone's bound to get offended.

There is a huge difference between carrying on as normal while someone take offense and coincidentally making a racial/stereotypical comment right in front of the very people the comment is directed at... The latter is pushing it a bit far in terms of social manners so stop reaching for straws...No one is saying you should be or anyone should be politically correct all the time...but there is a time and place for things... But I bite my tongue here because in this case the internet is always the right time and place for some to let loose moments of idiocy...

.curve wrote:

Also there's a giant difference between being a racist and playing to a stereotype. It's a stereotype that asians love rice, although every asian friend of mine has a pot of white rice ready to go at all times, and so it's harmless to poke fun at. If I were to say I hate those chinky eyed gooks, then yes, that could be considered racist.

Huge difference between both of those statements.

Also no offense to anyone by what I said, just making my point.

Again you assume that if it is just a stereotypical comment it should be perceived as such and no harm done in the name of fun....So again I urge you to exercise it...Have some of your asian friends invite you to one of their ceremonial gatherings/feast and once you're there walk around the place and start saying to the other party members you don't know "Hey, I am here to be yellow and eat rice like the rest of you"....Let me know how that turn out please....

You're either trolling or something..

Love · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 5336 **Location:**

You don't get it, I simply don't care if you're offended. You're the one that has to deal with your irrationality, you know what I do when others are "offensive" ? Nothing, no such concept for myself and no reaction follows.

Since your first response you declared 2 very specific adjectives about yourself that I'll keep to myself, dismissible is my conclusion.

omier · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 5985 **Location:** ...

Once a pointless argument has reached this number of posts about it, I stop reading said posts.

Aventus · **Posted:** Sun Feb 02, 2014 11:07 pm

Sanktum wrote:

Once a pointless argument has reached this number of posts about it, I stop reading said posts.

I just stop reading budo's posts in this case. When people just start being irrational they lose my interest.

Ganja · **Joined:** Sep 2009 **Posts:** 1494 **Location:**

Aventus wrote:

Sanktum wrote:

Once a pointless argument has reached this number of posts about it, I stop reading said posts.

I just stop reading budo's posts in this case. When people just start being irrational they lose my interest.

After about 5 posts it's just rambling and repetition.

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

Love wrote:

You don't get it, I simply don't care if you're offended. You're the one that has to deal with your irrationality, you know what I do when others are "offensive" ? Nothing, no such concept for myself and no reaction follows.

Yes...The rest of the world are clones of you (or should be)...That's right sorry I forgot...You seem to write the book on what's rational for everyone else as well...I had no clue...

Love wrote:

Since your first response you declared 2 very specific adjectives about yourself that I'll keep to myself, dismissible is my conclusion.

Why hold back on those 2 very specific adjectives?...Why now?...Why the concern for you have to say?...Your level of maturity and naivety is what you've revealed to me since your first post...

*BlackFox · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 7923 **Location:**

Love wrote:

I simply don't care if you're offended

It was a bad joke! "That being said" xD.
But If you don't care.. what do you care?

Love · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 5336 **Location:**

Spending a couple of minutes articulating any issue from time to time is never a bad thing, self review it's often desirable.

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