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i have to disagree
I think that person wiill meaby be bit desapointed but will enjoy in teaching you and she/he will respect and love you more for waiting just for them.....do correct me if im wrong

I agree with the theory but everyone is different...

no offense but tell that to a hormonal girl who wants sex

depending upon morals/self control for those morals everythings always gonna depend on the person because everyone is different

But the majority of people have sex long before marriage. Just the way it is.

And they will more than likely be dissapointed that you're still a virgin at 23 or 25 or even 30...LOLOL @ the notion of a 30 year old virgin or even a 25 year old one...

I think that someone who is waiting for marriage to have sex will most likey marry someone else who is just as commited. And, while i don't know for sure, most ppl that wait until marriage to have sex don't regret a minute of it. At that point its more then just getting your wang in her as fast as you can. When two ppl truly commit themselves to each other and there religion long enough to hold of a force like sex i think the eventually coming together will yield what sex was truly meant to be like in the first place....

all this coming from a romantic but even so its better than losing it at 14 or 15 to some chick/guy you won't care about or remember in 4 weeks. Your thinking that ppl who wait until marriage couldn't get any until marriage when in reality they're choosing not to and thats a pretty tough choice. You don't give them enough credit choco

I know at least 5 kids who are 12 who lost their virginity already
it increases exponentially going up with age anyways most of my friends (event the ladies) have lost their virginity by 16

why on earth do yo live.....when i was 12 sex was the last thing on my mind i didn't even know it existed and even if i did i'd probably be to buy pretending to film Jurassic Park 18 to notice....i can't imagine a 12 year old horny enough to have sex not to mention how small it is at that age and finding a female who'd be interested thats his own age cause if its with an older chick thats borderline molestation in my book and im a pretty liberal guy....i really am flabbergasted at this whole 12 year old kids doing it i just don't understand it physically, emotionally, chemically etc.....im going to just stop thinking about this and go read some manga cause wonder how 12 year olds do it is the last thing i want on my mind.....

i know someone who was sexually active at 13 i dont mean did it once in the spur of the moment

unless you watched it happen or were this persons best friend since he was 5 i really wouldn't believe that its just too surreal imo

well in the situation it was brought up in there was no beneficial reason to brag 3 out of 5 of us were virgins, tbh you had to be there to realise he wast lying

At 12 I was scared to touch myself because Jesus was watching.

Where do all of you live? Jesus Christ, were you guys all are people are doing drugs and having sex by the time they're 10.

I also have a question for some of you. Kinda like RuYi's, but different I guess.

Why do you wait until you're married? I think until you're in love is more romantic, because waiting until your married is more formal, and romance isn't formal, at least the way I think of it.

Though I'll talk about waiting until you're in love, I doubt that'll be the case with me, though I still hope that it is. If someone flaunts sex in my face I'm not gonna have the strength to turn it down.

[EDIT:]

Holy shit, this was the funniest thing I've read in a long time.

Maybe someone would like the deepest commitment with someone (marriage) before making love.

Live for now, not the future. If there's passion there, then take advantage of it and live your life and experience things when you can.

Sex is fun, it can be wild, it can be meaningless, it can be full of passion. *shrug*

Enjoy it while you have the drive.

Hmm, words of wisdom

I liked the live for now, not the future part, but if you think about it, that isn't so true. Like, if you lived for now you could drop out of highschool, and end up living on the street with a constant sunburn because you can't work for even McDonald's because they require their workers to have a highschool degree.

But anyways, like I said, as long as it's not... Umm... I dunno, really really stupid, and I mean age wise, the one night stand will always exist , then it's fine.

Hopefully that makes sense.

I think whoever voted -12 was a joke, lol i voted it aswell.

muahahahahahahahaha this is going in my sig

People who do drugs and shit are just crazy.
I mean, it's not like I'm some person who's like "drugs are bad for you, thus you shouldn't do them."

I'm fine with things that are bad for you, lol. But when things are put off limits (etc. drugs and "underage" drinking) then shit forms around them that causes people to be crazy and become losers.

Hopefully that makes sense, because as I read over it, I realise it doesn't make perfect sense, but it's probably good enough to understand.

I think drinking is fine because it only affects you, and there are no strange social things formed around it. This is opposed to "underage" drinking, the problem only seems to exist in America, although my friend from switzerland was talking about this, and that made me confused, but I still think it's only in America.

Smoking is not exactly fine... But more fine than others, it affects you and others, but there are almost no social things around it.

Drugs however aren't fine, they affect you, that's fine, but people who do drugs are losers. If you need to put some weird crap in your body to make yourself feel good, then your life is obviously pretty damn shitty.
And if any of you are like "I have a good life and do drugs", ok, I guess it's technically possible, however how unlikely, but drugs are illegal in most countries, and I'm not somebody who is obsessed with law or whatever, I try and bypass it anytime I can, but if you do drugs, and are ever tested, you can be thrown in jail and shit, can't become a proffetional athlete, or any shit like that, and who the hell would want that?

Anyways, I've kinda ranted abit for the most random reasons, but I think if you need the above stuff to make your life worth while... Then it must suck to be you.

When I say need, by the way, I mean you can't imagine your life without it.

rainbow answer
agreed
DISAGREED!!! Only afects you? Bought my mothers and my Fathers Dad's were agresive dinkers...as result neighter of those two familyes have normal relationship..even when my fathers dad quit dinking my father never fogave him gradpa is no 85 years old and dad still wont talk to him
My mom had prob becouse when she was little all were thinking less of her becouse she was daughter of well known drunker( ..thus loser )
Think about this isnt rare case u still think dinking does not affect any1 else? Still think there are no "strange social things formed around it"?
Well i dont like smokers meaby most....here are few reasons for that:
-Being near smoker and breading same air as he while he smokes makes u 20% smoker( affects that smokes are haveing on him are same on u just 80% weaker..still u suffer for hes decidion). So decidion of one person to smoke actually affects others to start or damage there breading organs even if theya re not smokers
i wont tell other reasons would open very large descution that am not willing to have
ok mostly agreed

Feel the same about smokers, it's decision though

Drinking does affect others, it's not as bad as drugs though.
Drinking is/can be fun. But don't overdo it.

thats why im not against it . As long as person can control itself dinking is smallest prob (of once that were mentiond)

My first was at 19.

Just be smart about it.

as you get older your views on this may change

Mugen .. just an IMO ... your posts are so hard to read I don't even bother anymore.

LOL when i talk about some complex things like this i get all messed up becouse im trying to round up all that i wanna say...sometimes its little bit hard ....at least i hope once you read them you understand what i wanted to say
@[SD]Master_Wong
what did u mean by that ( it realy can be undestood on several ways and i dont want to misunderstand it) pm me whit what u meant or post here plz

HEY! you guys got some alcohol??
got bleu vodka???
or a martini??
I wanna cheers too!

Doing drugs does not make you a loser, or antisocial, or crazy or whatever the drug commercials with the aliens tell you.

Im tired of people saying that, its an uneducated opinion, tons of people on drugs have their shit together and are definatly not losers. What do you know about peoples life as to why they do drugs?

Besides the fact your paragraph didnt even make sense to me..I know I am definatly not a fuc*king loser for doing drugs

Do agree on steriod part tho

Mugen I think many possibly feel what you are saying is because of your age, not because of your Christian beliefs. However I agree with what he says. Most have sex because of lust. Because the other is hot, because they are drunk/high, because they can tell their friends they scored, etc. I have just noticed kids who do have sex that I talk to always make sure I am aware when they do, I guess I'm supposed to think they are cool but it hurts my opinion of them not boosts it.

Waiting till you're married has several benefits. The easy ones would be not worrying about getting any Sexually Transmitted Diseases, Not worrying you are pregnant/Got someone pregnant, etc. Past that however, I think when you are married and married for the right reasons. When You are truly in love, Im sure its a whole different experience. Its not lust, its Love. People are too worried about "Oh well I wont be experienced enough for when I am married" well if like i said you marry for the right reasons, I doubt that will be a concern. Besides, you will just have to do it every moment you can to "practice" right? haha. But seriously I think there are tons of reasons why you should wait.

And I'm not saying you only can be in love when married, because obviously it is hardly the case. But then lets say you think you really are in love and not married. So you have sex, because they are the One for you and so on. couple months after you start to grow apart, find it wasnt really as true love as you thought and just kind of a puppy love. So you split up, she finds out she is pregnant and he is unreachable. Now her whole life is changed if she has it(lets not go into the abortion discussion though it never ends nicely) and he never knows he has a child. If you look at nothing more about why its bad to have sex before marriage, think of safety. All the diseases you can get and how they effect your life as well as getting someone pregnant. Dont be dumb and really think all those means of protection for sex actually work 100%.

Anyhow, its hard to really sway someone's beliefs on something like this. Takes a lot of guts for Mugen to be defending his side of it though since he is clearly outnumbered.