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no no no what i meant was

going in front a girl and pretend you fell on her

Oh noes I fell on top of you ranger4life, what should we do now?

Oh. Maybe I have the latent psychotic tendancies then.

Pretending to fall on a girl to grab her is not a good way to go, that would never work.

I'm 16 now and i met a girl 4 months ago. I asked her out and we had great fun together. she's my girlfriend now but sometimes i thinking about breaking up and sometimes i just want to be with her because i love her so much. pretty weird and it is hard to handle

I'm not sure how i feel about love now... had a girlfriend and loved her but... i guess i'm not made to be bound to someone in any way... that's why i haven't any one really close to me...

I guess time will decide if i'm ready for love but now i'm certainly not... i don't need it nor want it, right now... just feel like being alone for a while and see if some day that spark gets back to life.

I have had a bit complicated relationships, first i'm really interested on a girl but when we get close enough i realize that she's not as interesting as she looked like... and that has happened a few times, so i don't want to be fooled again. I'll just wait and hope someday i find a person to be with, but right now i feel good being alone...

Where is it?

Lol it's in the who are you topic.

Love sucks sometimes. Really really really really bad. Like for instance, when you feel like you love somebody with all of your heart, and you even tell them, and they turn you down. Loving somebody when they don't feel the same is one of the shittiest emotions I've ever experienced.

Loving somebody when they feel the same can be one of the best emotions.

Love is weird.

Also, what is love?

What I call love and what you guys call love may be slightly or even greatly different.

My first serious relationship actually turned into a long lasting one. My high school sweetheart and I ended up getting married and we were together for 9 years. We've recently separated and will soon be divorced. We've grown into completely different people now and while its hard to let go, it's for the best.

So, then I met this guy and he's freakin amazing but we live so far away from each other and soon I have to move and we'll still be far away. Can long distance relationships really be successful? Of course we could each visit each other every few months or so but I'm honestly worried that we'd eventually drift apart.

Should I post pone my career and chase love? It's the biggest question of my life right now. Jobs come and go but true love could take a lifetime to find.

Some people would say that "you don't find love, love finds you"
I guess i can live with that... i'd say, keep your career... sooner or later that person will come to you...

I think your career is more important, there are many out there that you can fall madly in love with I think.

It just doesn't seem possible when you're currently madly in love. But it is.

At least I think.

Maybe there's one person meant for each of us who is an exact match.

But that sounds out there and iffy and unrealistic.

I guess if it's meant to be ... well you know the cliche

there is somethin id want to add to my story.

my best friend is dating my gf's sister
its ideal. we take turns in who drives there

I can honestly say I've never been IN love nor do I think I am ready to. Theres a big difference between loving someone to pieces and being in love with them.

Met my current gf when discussing a vacation with some friends. She and a friend were coming as well.

I knew one of my friends had been trying to get her to go out with him for like half a year allready, so i wasn't really planning on making a move. Adding to that, i was to damn shy to make a move anyway, well that has changed since then.

I never was such a dater, sure there's loads of pretty girls out there, but none of them ever really interested me. I'm not someone whom goes out for a snugg every night.

Well she added me on msn a week after we met, and we started talking. This continued for like a week or two, and we started to get to know eachother a little.

Meanwhile she got impatient, cause i wasn't asking her out. So she did, we went to go see a really lame, but funny movie, and we had a blast. Still nothing happened.

We started really going out about a week later. i remember my friend being pissed off at me for stealing the girl he had been after for like half a year. Hell i couldn't care, she's the first girl i ever really liked, and the first girl whom seemed worth putting time and effort in.

We've been going out for 2 years now, still going strong.

Here's mine:

At the start there was nothing going between me and her. I was mad after a certain girl and she was in love with a guy who was annonymous to me. Time went by and I realised, the girl i loved was dating the guy she loved. Rage took over then.

And so it came, that we became ever closer to each other, in the envy of having who we actually wanted. Coincidence or no coincidence, we stayed together afterwards, and it's been going on for almost two years now. It was never anything real serious, that is. The serious part is worthy of a much better cause, and it's time has not come yet.
I would prefer not to have any girlfriend instead of a pasionless, superficial dating relation. In a certain measure, I resemble Bakemaster (the part stated above only.. ).


And that's about it

guy has guy friend. Guy initally hates guy friend. Guy starts warming up to guy friend. Guy gets lonely and guy friend is there. Guy goes out with guy friend ever since for about a year now. Guy likes guy boyfriend alot and is very happy but sometimes wishes guy boyfriend wouldn't act so much like an insensitive egodriven jerk....aka a a guy like myself ^^ but its cool cause sometimes guy boyfriend makes me laugh and smile i remember why i like guy boyfriend in the first place.

Glad to see you're happy^
I really like this girl I hang out a lot with. We have a lot of fun together, but I know she doesn't like me. Besides, she tends to like boys at least 3/4 years older then her. Anyway, she just asked me 15 mins ago is I could possibly like her. To her this is just "pure friendship. And having a lot of fun."
Somehow I just can't be honest, but I suppose that's because I'm too goddamn shy. >.> I don't know if this was to find out, and she does like me, or she ment it. Don't think I wanna know. >.>

Btw, she has "Love's not a competition, but I'm winning"(L) in her MSN name >.>. It was in before, still is. =/

To all of you with gf's in other countries
She's scewing Jerry right now~

Shoo.

Lol.

Dude I totally agree with you...I have x girlfriends call me all the time asking if I would like to "hang out"..and as tempting as it is I ALWAYS say no because I love the girl im with now to death...and I just dont jepordize that...WAY to dangerous...

bumpin this thread.

like i said, my best friend is in australia here with me and he was dating my
gf's sister. she just told him she kissed some other dude. too bad she couldnt
wait a couple more weeks

hes a bit down now, but we could both expect something like this. my gf is
done with her exams and has holiday now. shes goin to france. ill have to
wait n see

keepin the faith

keeping teh faith is often hard... hang on in there, cin

I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.

Here is my problem
Sorry bad grammar
and really Long

well started high school had just moved in this area and i was alone for a while i didnt bother talking to no one cuz i took my moms car and drove to another town and experimented alot with drugs with alot of ppl older then me.. not only did i have a really long hair but i was A-B student so ppl considered me weird and some chicks thought i was attractive i just ignored it.

Fast foward to grade 10 and all the teachers liked me b/c i was very talkative and didnt bullshit yet i still had trouble making friends in this town i had like 100+ in my the last town i lived in so then i ran into this chick i though she was hot but she was gothic i just liked staring at her eyes they where like Anime eyes. Well i talk to her on the phone for 5hrs one day and she said some stuff i said some and we really hit it off but she liked another guy. I instead multiple times in a way i think i scared her she had to decided me or that other guy b/c both of us had asked her out she chooses the other guy, no more then 1month later they break up i still liked her but tried very hard to just ignore it so i concentrated on other chicks.

i dated someone for a while, so while she was single i was taken so we avoided doing anything serious we did have very sexual phone calls. well the chick i was dating moved so it ended but when i was going to turn to her someone else asked her out another douche she accepted so while i was single she was taken we talked regularly hanged out alot but i constantly got piss that i was being used in a way she said she liked me but that i wasnt good enough or i was but she didnt want to ruin it yet so i flipped out at her current BF things got weird.

the first guy she dated ended up cheating on her and so did this guy.
couple months pass and he dumps her, gothic style started to fade. i ended up with another chick we dated for 6months and in between that time we hanged out alot as well and actually spooned here and there. she told me she was jealous now so i tried paring her with one of my friends they hit it off quite well there relationship lasted as long as mine did we didnt hang out much for like 5months.

she was had a miscarriage and the guy dump her so she fell into a deep depression and meanwhile i dumped the chick i had dated for 6months and got in another relationship within 24hrs all i did for a while was drugs sex drugs and stealing the mother of the chick i was dating caught on and wanted me out of her daughters life so i was told to Fu8k off or i was going to get in serious shit..hanged out with my friends for month or more and was drugs drugs drugs liek the old days at the other town. well i stopped hanging out with everyone i had 30+ friends and completely just had no motivation to continue doing the same thing on and on so for my senior yr i was by myself again for 1yr all did was play video games and eat iam surprised i didnt gain weight.

well inbetween i hanged out with the gothic chick she didnt dress gothic anymore but she was still depress b/c that guy she dated for 6months was her first so i told her to take drugs she ignored it and was always against it but she tried it out in between that she tried killing her self as well once again we stopped talking i was by myself and actually enjoyed life i started to organize all my shit together she dated 2 guys one was rebound for the guy she dated for months then the next one was a WoW freak lmao she ended up getting him into pot and out of wow.

For me the yr passed with no one no gf no friends nothing school ends and a week till graduation and one morning i wake up and find her and one of my ex on LSD knocking on my window at 5am i ran out and said hi we talked. i walked them back to there house since they where still kinda tweaking we get there and get in a car but my ex had to stay home to clean up and then she can go outside again so then we get in a car and drive to pick up some food after that she starts to say how she feels bad for what had happen we get a call from my ex and she decideds to blow her off and instead comes to my place we talked and watched a movie she passed out i left her sleep and then went to her house cuz she had to clean, helped her clean LSd had wore off so then came back to my place she stays at my house from 10am till 10pm she leaves then comes the next day and we drive around and talk and talk about the old times in between that she says that she pictures seeing us married once again hang out till 11pm talking hold hands here and there didnt kiss thought.

we bought 2 hits of LSD and waited a couple days to take it happens to be graduation so i didnt go and took the lsd and hanged out for liek 5-7hrs then one of my friend picked me up after not talking for 1yr to take me to graduation to celebrate instead i acted liek a drunk maniac screaming our music is to orgasmic for all of you. we took off and they just dump me and her back at my house was getting late like 11pm she had to be home at 12pm but was thinking of not showing up till 4am or even later
but in between that i didnt want to violate her space so i ask if i could just
hold her, after that she got all freaked out and said she felt bad i assumed she was saying no but then she leaves at 11:30 i said sorry i think you took it the wrong way i wasnt trying to fu*k you or anything (i dont BS ppl so an answer liek that wouldnt surprise her) well she stops talking to me after that i stayed home watching "Spirited Away" on acid petrified and it all i could think off was about how i might of said something wrong 1month has passed and no respond no Hey in myspace no phone call no nothing i avoid bothering ppl so i decided to wait till she wants to talk to me for a full month now i gotten no responds i txed her saying sorry if i said anything wrong 3 weeks ago but she didnt answer and last thing i told her was good night. 3yrs of almost dating we where very close and she has told many people about it how iam 1 out 3 ppl who know her the most yet once again stop talking... Honestly iam knowed for thinking alot and coming up with great solutions also knowed as the insane Drug user and for having multiple personalities ...i have decided to leave her alone once again and let it go but something inside me wants to fight for her but with respect. she had spoke to me how she didnt want to ruin it but this is getting close i have other chicks that want to date me but i feel nothing towards any of them and iam thinking of moving out of this country . IDK what to do.. ODD part almost all the guys she dated where some what a part of my so call multiple personalities they where just more concentrated on one single thing 1st Dark Personality /2nd Philosopher/3rd Hyper Loud party/4th Quite Timid/5th computer freak.. they where just more intense in one thing IDK if it means something.

for now once again like in the beginning iam all alone with a hard time making new friends in this town this time i cant drive back to the other town since they all move and disappeared.

I was fine being alone and had excepted that i might live alone for the rest of my life since other people IMO arent really interesting.
well the ones that would want to date me.
Pretty<Personality (not butt ugly though)

just because he botted?

and aren't you already pregnant? i remember you saying it in a thread a few months ago.

wait what how are you with someone for 9 years and haven't noticed a change like somewhere between year 1-8 did you notice anything...and 9 years is a logn time to be married with someone who you ended up divorcing how old were you when you got married...and whyw ould you marry your high school sweet heart withotu knowing who he really is i mean by the end of high school a person is almost you know "together" with themselves...i just don't get it srry if none of that made no sense

Not funny... and wtf, this is getting way personal. Time changes things.. people change, situations change, circumstances change etc... We eventually grew apart like I said its not something that happened over night. And if you all must know, yes I was pregnant at one point. Unfortunately went into premature labor back in March and things didnt go so well as you can imagine.

That is all. I guess I wont post my life story anymore...

part of marriage is choosing love
not falling in love
Of course people change and you knew it before hand yet you still went through the whole thing..

Som,e one at least give me some advice iam always use to giving other people advice but i never receive advise cuz no one gives it to me

Maybe because your advices are so good, people are afriad ther advices aren't as good and they can't help you as much as you helped them



But... what can i say you?... my story is similar to yours but completely different at the same time...
I normally try to avoid "advicing" people in personal matters because that kind of opinions are the most hurting and unhelpful if they are biased...

The only thing i could say to you is: Let her decide... Go on with your life, you already apologized, so the fate of this is not in your hand, you did what you had to do... the only thing you can do now is wait if she decides to accept your apologize and try to get close again... or dump it and lose your friendship/love (whatever it was/could be). And even if she feel like accepting your apologize after you moved on, it is her fault not yours... now the question for you is: can your life stop because of her? How important s her influence in this matter?

I feel like you that i'm surrounded by non-very-interesting people. And if i found a person that deserves attention, hell! i would love to be able to give it. But what if that person doesn't want it? whatever their reasons could be...

I'd say that you should wait, but not too long... if she punishes you with her silence, you can as well punish her with your abscence later on... though it might be painful, i don't think you should let your life in "stand by" because of someone that can't even tell you if only wants friendship; or is indeed interested in a "deeper" relationship; or is not interested in anything and just want you out of her life... If she can't tell you, then move on... that's my opinion.

Hope it can do any good.