BuDo wrote:
Its a matter of perception...at those ages it doesn't seem like a big deal...but when you get older it does......It's best to ask yourself however if you had a 14 year old little sister would it be OK for some 17 yr old dude to be dating her......or if you were old enough to have a 14 yr old daughter would it be OK. People barely try to empathize that's why they can give such casual responses to things like these.
You made me have a whole different view on it(and other things), kudos to you mate