[SD]draquish wrote:
Btw, why does Xemma's gender matter?
I think they were just surprised when Xemnas talked about having a boyfriend and didn't consider the bi/gay possibility until after a few posts.
I've found that it can get messy if you let the relationship wither away. Personally, I'd bite the bullet and move on. Just my opinion.
I want to ask a question...at what point would you mention that you are bi to someone you would like to have (or are in) a relationship with? Do you mention it right off the bat, in case it turns out to be a deal breaker? Do you let the topic come up naturally and be honest but don't push the issue yourself? Do you try and keep it a secret and hope you never have to cross that bridge?
I like to make friends with someone before i go out with them so in the course of things it should come up naturally but its not really an issue cause when im with one sex i'll pretty much ignore the other...weird but i act a bit gayer when im with a guy and a bit straighter when im with a girl
