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Does it bother you guys that your gf or the person you like is not virgin?

I picture my gf with another guy and it disgust the shit out of me. f*cking hate it.

well, it's how it is lol

u can't be that possessive xD

Nice topics mate, but i dont like Beyonce no more, cause she aint virgin

awww... yup thats normal!! its called jealousy.. just think of it this way.. lets say you slept with a girl and lost your virginity to her.. this girl turns out to be bad or not the one.. later you meet a nice girl and she's a virgin would u like her to judge you the same way you judged girl !! u just gotta be understandable **truth i wouldn't like that myself but wanted to give you an advice .. cuz later you will go to college and its gonna be really diff**

It's already like that in High School.

It's the modern age of sex. Either you enjoy life and take ppl as they come, or you wait til marriage and pray to god that he/she is the right one, if not, you're fcked.

This is getting ridiculous.

Cheating and not being a virgin are different things...

But it is how it is, you either take it or leave it.

There's a difference between popping your cherry and being a virgin. Just putting that out there lul

I wouldn't be with my girlfriend if she wasn't a virgin.. then again, she's 16. Imo, losing your virginity at a young age is a huge turn off.

girlfriends don't matter. i just want my future wife to be a virgin

I rofl'd after reading this topic.

Are you making these topics because some girl finally said yes?

honestly by 21 theres a good chance 99% of the girls you meet have had sex or close intimate encounters so try put it out of your mind the older you get the less chance you have of getting virgins unless your a pedo rapist

//edit i understand your likely not even 18 but im just saying this to make a point, also sex under the age of 16 is a tad weird but not all that different these days girls are maturing at a much younger age in this day and age physically

-- EDITED -- Was gonna start a huge flame war --

im right there with you. its just one of those things you either need to embrace and not date non virgins, or get over it and learn to deal with it. i learned to deal with it.

I can't either. Seriously, that is why people that date and end up marrying someone older than 20, doesn't have to worry about their gf/wife wondering what another man would be like. Both my gf's I've had in the psst 6 years were Virgins, and it literally made me sick when my first left me for someone else because it kinda forced that mental image in my head.

i dont like it especially if your friend with the guy that farked her or some shit

Not really a big deal. As long as the girl doesn't start talking about the details, it shouldn't matter. I stopped caring about it as soon as I hit HS. I still don't see the big deal unless she got some STD from her old partners.

Edit:

Yeah, I just saw the lip locking thread. Either he's trolling or he's with his first GF.

yeah uh. virgins aren't that great most of the time they have no idea what the **** they want or how to do anything. not to mention they want the first time to be super special and you have to take your time till shes used to being penetrated.

speaking of virgins....

A) If you can't deal with the fact that your gf is not a virgin, than don't **** until you're married.

B) If you can deal with the fact that your gf is not a virgin, than **** away.

Then*

Sorry, it's a huge pet peeve of mine.

so when should I use 'then' and when should I use 'than'?

"Then" for sequencing, "than" for comparison.

Flame war? Yes please.

Honestly, does it actually matter? Whether someone has or hasn't had intercourse, kissed, dated or played a game of Uno with someone in the past is irrelevant. Mainly because, frankly, it's in the past. We all have our own lives and we all experiment in various ways as we grow up. And yes, god forbid, people will have sex with other people before they have sex with you! It's not really something to care about. The person is with you because they love you/like you/want to be with you or whatever. Their past relationships are irrelevant, the present one is what you should be focussing on.

You know what really sucks though? Being the virgin in that scenario. As of last week, I turned 21 and I am still a virgin myself. Expression of love, never had a serious relationship rah rah rah; the reasons are irrelevant. I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time, but when I was with my ex girlfriend I always thought in the back of my mind "You know what Ted? If things get serious, you might just end up having some funtimes with this amazing woman. And you will have absolutely no idea what your doing. So remember, no matter what you do, don't poke her in the eye or anything. And try not to be bad." While that may be a tad exaggerated, I do feel a sort of pressure placed upon me for being incredibly inexperienced, to the point of having no experience at all. I mean, while I think the emotions are bonds between 2 people are what makes the act meaningful and special, I still don't want to embarrass myself or get to a point where I don't know what to do next (lul?). What I'm trying to say is, don't go wishing every partner you ever have to be a virgin. Because from their point of view, it kind of sucks >_>

LOL



So, you watch tons of pron?

Seriously though, i agree with most of what you said as its the same for me too.

when i was 15?

It doesnt matter...

Some say that its better to have a GF that have experience than non. And other say that virgins once tasted, always wanted. Its confusing, so instead, just dont think about it (or deal with it). The important thing is you and her have a special bond that both of you trust, and are loyal to each other. All girls are different (mentally, physically, emotionally, and *insert all ~ally words in here*). So you cant really put a finger on how a specific lady will act the same way as the last person you thought did.

I'm not really shock about this news, just because for the certain fact that this act has been popular centuries ago, they even did it in public. *wall of 3 paragraph text removed*

Anyways, i simply just place a larger value of respect to ladies who are virgin (usually, over the age of 20 and above), its not because they're ugly or incompatible, its just that when a person is under the influence of lust there is no way on earth they'll think about shit like that; as long as they can find pleasure. Think about it, how many men(possibly even women) have ever tried to talk to her or even force her to go to bed with them. They must have like large sense of self-respect to turn down such an opportunity that both persons benefit from the sensation. Which self-respect, above all, i adore a woman to have as an ideal potential partner, its just me, so dont push me to swallow that religious bullshit or whatever.

And also dont ridicule ladies who arent virgin, its good they have experience about that, but mostly, i just really dont care, as long as they're loyal to their current or future partner there's no problem.