Theres a girl, that I've known ever since I was 3 (15 now), and after the last time I saw her I can't get her out of my mind, I came to realise that I love her.
But the problem is that, we are really close friends, and we are kinda related to each other, and I don't wanna mess up our friendship by confessing and finding out that she doesn't love me.
Here's a revelation that will rock your world, telling someone you like them and them not liking you back doesn't destroy friendships. It's awkward for a month then it's like it never happened. BOOM!! I know your mind is completely blown right now so take the next week to recover and grow some balls and just ask her out in 2 weeks.
oh shit forget all that, did not read the post through:
Here's a revelation that will rock your world, telling someone you like them and them not liking you back doesn't destroy friendships. It's awkward for a month then it's like it never happened. BOOM!! I know your mind is completely blown right now so take the next week to recover and grow some balls and just ask her out in 2 weeks.
oh shit forget all that, did not read the post through:
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we are kinda related to each other
yeah **** that, stay far away, incest is not ok
*kinda*
Not actually related, I think my cousin married her aunt or something
I will try to be compassionate here, despite the going trend atm. When your at the age you are, relationships may seem a lot scarier and surreal than they actually are. Most of the time though, you just have to remember to use some simple common sense. Do you get the feeling that she likes you? Does she flirt with you? Does she seem to act like more than just a friend around you? If you don't feel like she likes you than chances are, she doesn't. Which is a harsh thing to say, but a lot of the time it's the case. You have a lot of familiarity with the girl, your not necessarily "in love" with her but you've grown accustomed to her being in your life. It's natural to feel the way you do.
If you honestly thing that there may be something between you two, than tell her how you feel. Don't tell SRF how you feel, it's not like we can talk to her for you. Talk to your close friends, their opinion is probably more valid than ours. But if you don't think she likes you, than just let this one slide.
Also, you really aught to check out exactly "how" your related to her. Because that is pretty messy, truth be told.
Also, everyone lay off the guy. I mean hell, he's 15. We were all young at one stage and we all did things which we would consider stupid now. I know I did, that's for sure. Cut him some slack and actually give people a chance to grow up.
Douchebags. It seems that on SRF, the older you are, the more you think you're knowledgeable when it's rarely the case here. Get off your high horse, most of you guys never even experienced love or had a girlfriend/partner.
He has feelings for her, who cares if he calls it "love" and if it's truly is love.
Easy there soldier... It's true that the responses to anything dating/love related on SRF are pretty mean and negative most of the time, but that's also the case for most forums, it's the Internet after all. If he wants dating advice he should go to a dating advice forum. He's free to ask us our opinion but by doing that he must be ready to hear what the people have to say, be it nice or mean.
Now going from that to assuming that "most of you guys never even experienced love or had a girlfriend/lover" is taking a huge step that is not only pulling facts out of your arse, it can also be offensive.
With that said, love has no definition, teenagers go around saying I love you all the time nowadays, it looses most of it's importance really. Who are we to decide what he feels? He feels it and he can call it whatever the **** he wants.
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Well, long story short.
Theres a girl, that I've known ever since I was 3 (15 now), and after the last time I saw her I can't get her out of my mind, I came to realise that I love her.
But the problem is that, we are really close friends, and we are kinda related to each other, and I don't wanna mess up our friendship by confessing and finding out that she doesn't love me.
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Hi.
Dont tell a girl you love her. (unless youve been dating her for a long time)
1) ask her out, just be like hey lets go to xx fun place etc. . .
2) have fun with her
3) kiss her sometime when you feel the situation is right. YOU are the man so YOU need to make the move and the move is NOT telling her *how you feel*
telling a girl that you like her in most cases freaks her out. Contrary to popular belief (TV Drams) you ahve to be the MAN! just have fun and if it goes well kiss her at a good time (youll know when that is) HOWEVER if #1 fails . . .as in she declines more than once then take it as a sign that she aint into you or most likely is seeing someone else atm.
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Dont tell a girl you love her. (unless youve been dating her for a long time)
1) ask her out, just be like hey lets go to xx fun place etc. . .
2) have fun with her
3) kiss her sometime when you feel the situation is right. YOU are the man so YOU need to make the move and the move is NOT telling her *how you feel*
telling a girl that you like her in most cases freaks her out. Contrary to popular belief (TV Drams) you ahve to be the MAN! just have fun and if it goes well kiss her at a good time (youll know when that is) HOWEVER if #1 fails . . .as in she declines more than once then take it as a sign that she aint into you or most likely is seeing someone else atm.
^ correct.. and in case u didn't watch this movie.. you have to watch it you will like it and its kinda funny !!
The younger and in love you are the more real the love is... 15 and in love makes sense because love doesn't make sense....real love is without reason or sense..... The older you get the more you start to love with your mind and less with your feelings ....and love shouldn't be calculating...
So to those that think he's too young to be talking about love I have to disagree with you... Your moms and dads don't act the way they used to when they were younger because wisdom and common sense has taken a hold where pure blind foolish love used to be. They've grown up.
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Love??lololol You "like" her, itz funny how people twist those things. Love is when you are with some body so many years and no matter what happens you stay together trough good/bad times, that's love
@Topic, We can't give you advice, cause you never know how she react, just follow your instincts and wait for the right moment...
Offer her 50 bucks for physical contact, share results o.O
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