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Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

Play fair in love and war?

Or do you consider everything to be fair?

Or is there a certain line that you draw. And if so, what is it?

*BlackFox · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 7923 **Location:**

What kind of war? xD

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

I call it the "who's getting to put their dick in "x" orifice" war.

Or WGTPTDIXO, for short.

poehalcho · **Posted:** Tue May 20, 2014 10:25 pm

What exactly is considered unfair?
blackmail :P?

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

I try to play fair in nearly all cases/instances...But I also will mirror the unfairness that's being played towards me...

TheDrop · **Joined:** May 2008 **Posts:** 7150 **Location:** uefa2012

wat.

afaik nothings fair, trying to play fair just opens you up to getting screwed over.

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker

#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

iSinnnn · **Posted:** Wed May 21, 2014 2:04 am

just do it and be happy for a bit until she lets another guy come along and do the same to you. nbd

Gaigemasta · **Joined:** Dec 2006 **Posts:** 4474 **Location:**

Tasdik, from experience don't do it. A lot of times if she's willing to cheat, she'll most likely end up doing it to you as well. Not always true but avoiding drama in life is always best. Hurting people to get what you want isn't the way someone should live.

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

For the record, I'd never let it progress anywhere "risque" while she is still with her boyfriend. That's not how I roll.

But my deal is this, isn't so wrong to be a bit flirty with her, nothing over the line of course, to kind of make her consider me as an option?

Like, I know I should just leave it alone and let her be happy with her BF. But what about my happiness? Do I do the noble thing and place her happiness above my own? Or do I try and at least put forth some effort to see if it'll go anywhere?

Blindfire · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 3844 **Location:** ...

If she hasn't told you she has a boyfriend, be interested. If she has mentioned it, she probably did so to keep you from hitting on her.

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

Tasdik wrote:

For the record, I'd never let it progress anywhere "risque" while she is still with her boyfriend. That's not how I roll.

But my deal is this, isn't so wrong to be a bit flirty with her, nothing over the line of course, to kind of make her consider me as an option?

Like, I know I should just leave it alone and let her be happy with her BF. But what about my happiness? Do I do the noble thing and place her happiness above my own? Or do I try and at least put forth some effort to see if it'll go anywhere?

Don't go further complicating things for yourself and possibly putting her in a uncomfortable and awkward position by flirting around... If you have to resort to that to win her from her man then that's probably not a good start to a relationship with her...If something develops naturally then that would be the best result in my opinion...

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

You know, come to think of it, she hasn't mentioned her boyfriend to me specifically...

BuDo wrote:

Don't go further complicating things for yourself and possibly putting her in a uncomfortable and awkward position by flirting around... If you have to resort to that to win her from her man then that's probably not a good start to a relationship with her...If something develops naturally then that would be the best result in my opinion...

I agree. That would be ideal.

Slight problem; She lives 12 hours away. Sooooo, at best I'll see her 2-3 times a year. So that complicates the whole "developing naturally" thing.

Grounded · **Joined:** Nov 2008 **Posts:** 1358 **Location:** Demacia

Tasdik wrote:

My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker
#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

That broke my home and my heart.

OT: 2~3 times a year ain't enough, besides, if she cheats for you she might cheat on you, its all about principles and values. Yet you might just give her the D and run away, that way is a 50% win (no love story / you get over with the fact that u want to have something with her).

#NuffSaid

PS: You can't make a post like this without posting a pic of her. No creepy thoughts intended (Can't promise that tho)

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

Grounded wrote:

That broke my home and my heart.

OT: 2~3 times a year ain't enough, besides, if she cheats for you she might cheat on you, its all about principles and values. Yet you might just give her the D and run away, that way is a 50% win (no love story / you get over with the fact that u want to have something with her).

#NuffSaid

PS: You can't make a post like this without posting a pic of her. No creepy thoughts intended (Can't promise that tho)

I don't know how I feel about you doubting my seductive powers.

Also, I'm not trying to just bang her. Like I said, that's not how I roll. Plus, with a woman that special, she's totally worth waiting for.

P.S. I love you.

Oh, I should probably mention that this girl is my sister-in-law's sister. Because, you know, it wasn't complicated enough.

Grounded · **Joined:** Nov 2008 **Posts:** 1358 **Location:** Demacia

"P.S. I love you". Stop watching gay movies.

It's funny how you throw a fun fact about the girl in every comment you make lol, like shes 12h away, that she's your sister's sister in law. GIB ALL INFO OQE OR BB.

And yes, I know how you roll cuz u did that on me..

MrTwilliger · **Joined:** May 2008 **Posts:** 1374 **Location:** Hiding

I've been cheated on by a few girlfriends so perhaps my opinion is incredibly biased. I truly believe that if she's willing to leave her boyfriend for you then she's not worth a second of your time. If she is with a person but is so quick to drop him then she has no idea what being in love actually is. Chances are she will just drop you for some other guy, too. If she's done it once why wouldn't she do it again? She's 12 hours away buddy and those cold lonely nights in Russia are tough. I have a big issue trusting people and someone like her just screams "back the fuck out Dylann."

Move to Australia. Come marry me. Kthnx

omier · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 5985 **Location:** ...

I'm kinda in a similar situation actually...

*BlackFox · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 7923 **Location:**

Tasdik wrote:

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

Seriously, Just forget It... And move on!

I Am Vegeta · **Posted:** Wed May 21, 2014 4:44 pm

Tasdik wrote:

My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker

#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

you wanna pump and dump or you wanna make it your girl?

if it's the first thing then go ahead and it's not your problem if she's a sloot.

if it's the second option then i would just skip this one tbh, if she leave her bf for another guy that hit on her then she'll probably do the same to you, and even if she don't it'll bug you forever.

.curve · **Posted:** Wed May 21, 2014 6:03 pm

I Am Vegeta wrote:

Tasdik wrote:

My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker

#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

you wanna pump and dump or you wanna make it your girl?

if it's the first thing then go ahead and it's not your problem if she's a sloot.

if it's the second option then i would just skip this one tbh, if she leave her bf for another guy that hit on her then she'll probably do the same to you, and even if she don't it'll bug you forever.

Actually, this is spot on.

If all it takes for you to get on her radar is a little flirting, then that's all it will take for the next guy and the next guy to get on her radar while she's with you.

Then even if she does pick you, there will always be that doubt in your mind, especially with a 12 hour difference, about whether or not she's going to stick around. That's toxic for a relationship right out the gate

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

That moment when Vegeta actually makes sense...

I see the logic in y'alls points. It's just hard, not to be overly dramatic, but this is literally my dream girl in every single possible way. It'll be tough letting that go.

*packs his bags for Australia*

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

Tasdik wrote:

That moment when Vegeta actually makes sense...

No shit lol... Anyways time to start looking elsewhere...She's not the only person who can make you feel this way...Expand your gaze and you'll realize other possibilities...

Ganja · **Joined:** Sep 2009 **Posts:** 1494 **Location:**

If she's related to your sister-in-law then you might see her 2-3 times a year anyway. Get on her radar if/when she breaks up with her boyfriend be there to snatch her up.

Grounded · **Joined:** Nov 2008 **Posts:** 1358 **Location:** Demacia

Dear stranger,

Pease log off of Vegeta's account.

Sincerely,
SRF's Community.

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

So, before we wrap up this "wait and see what the **** happens" decision, I have a question.

Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

I love it for two reasons.

1.) Her BF will be sitting right there when she unwraps it.

2.) It's a "harmless" yet amusing gift to give someone. Because fake vanity is the best.

Thoughts?

Grounded · **Joined:** Nov 2008 **Posts:** 1358 **Location:** Demacia

Dont make it a selfie.
Make it a Dickpick.

I Am Vegeta · **Posted:** Thu May 22, 2014 3:30 pm

Tasdik wrote:

So, before we wrap up this "wait and see what the **** happens" decision, I have a question.

Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

I love it for two reasons.

1.) Her BF will be sitting right there when she unwraps it.

2.) It's a "harmless" yet amusing gift to give someone. Because fake vanity is the best.

Thoughts?

*BlackFox · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 7923 **Location:**

Tasdik wrote:

Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

If she is happy with her boyfriend.. and she is in love with him.
Why the hell do you want to "ruin their relationship?"

RoOF · **Joined:** Jan 2011 **Posts:** 146 **Location:**

*BlackFox wrote:

Tasdik wrote:

Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

If she is happy with her boyfriend.. and she is in love with him.
Why the hell do you want to "ruin their relationship?"

we are talking about tasdick after all
he is a dick!

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