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Okay, here's the deal

this topic is about the relationships of SRF'ers.
who is involved in one, who was, who has an eye on someone, etc.
this is a topic to tell your story, keep us updated or ask for advice.

Ill kick off with my story.

Ive had some girlfriends over the years, but not really a steady relationship.
2 months before i went to Australia for my internship, i got close with a girl
who i had known for about 5 years. we been real close for about 1,5-2 months.

now im in australia and i communicate with her over msn and i call her once
or twice a month. this seems easy, but it is in fact pretty hard to not be there
with her. i mean, she just messed up one of her final exams and i wasnt
there to comfort her, that kindof hurts.

its also hard to see the nice young ladies walk by on the streets or dancing
in the clubs.. i get tempted to "do" things, especially when ive had some
drinks. and always at those moments, even though i know im not doing
anything wrong yet, i get this feeling that stops me. anywhere i go, i know
i have a gf back home that is willing to wait until im back. i do know that im
missing out on things, most of u know what, but in some way, i feel lucky
to be in this position. to know that i have something to look forward to for
when im back.

anyways, when i get back in august, we will start dating again and will try
to start over; i have, off course, been away for 6 months by then and the
both of us might have changed during that time. i do hope this will work
out without any problems, but ill just meet her and we will see what happens.

ok this was a chapter from cin's personal life. i hope you will share yours

Well since all the friends i used to be with became drug-addicted noobs, i stepped out of their group as we call it, and then i bought a computer.. and i became a "gamer", while in this group i had very attractive girlfriends, i was (yes, was) pretty popular when it comes down to going out to clubs and stuff and with girls. I don't look like a gamer and i def not listen to gamer-music ( metal most likely ), have to add that i'm pretty good looking , not wanna show off but every1 know's that for himself. So yeah my old friends were pretty much always dick's and smoked pot every day ( with that i joined, but thats my line of how far i go) then they started taking pillz and shit and now even 1 of them is on to heroine so...

So yeh i now game a lot and my relationship with my girlfriend i've been with for nearly 3 years ( next month our 3 year anniversary ) is kinda suffering on the fact that i game a lot..

I live in a village quite far away from any towns/city's so i cant really be arsed going over to my friends in there every day to hang out.

Nice topic. Excited about the other SRF'ers story's that are to be posted.

Btw im nearyl 17 and my GF is 16.

EDIT: Sometimes i really think like what the fck am i doing here.. sitting in my chair most of the day when i don't have school, playing games and talking to online friends on teamspeak. Sometimes i think about quitting gaming, but i have nothing else to do around here. Reason is because some people online are just.. wrong , you know? they have an opinion about stuff i jsut can't understand, some people just curse and curse and curse, it gets me pissed off so much that it sometimes goes outta hand. People that have a problem in their home-situation, their family, for the people that understand this, they simply miss a piece of love/attention from their parents. Raised wrong IMO. That stuff really pisses me off, ima good person unlike alot of other people online.

Still have loads of friends i go out with /see every once in a while, but my close friends are all "lost".
Yeah thats my life

If you've known her for 5 years, I believe ya'll have enough equal trust to make it work; and if both of you where faithful during the time apart, when ya'll finally reunite...well...let's just say that not doing drank water for a long time, and suddenly you're free to drink it again, you WILL do it. I shall post my story when I'm in the "story-telling" mood.

ya i also have the feeling things will get back to normal when i return. it will
just take a bit of time i guess. looking forward to ur story draq

@twysta ~ i also had some friends that started drugging. theres only one of
em thats still in my friend group, but leaning on the edge as pills dont really
satisfy him any more on parties. its sad to see friends go down like that..
good job on keeping a 3 year relationship on your age. a lot of us, yes including
me, tend to hop from one girl to another at that time. however, i wasnt the
type to pick up a different chick at the clubs every week; i always tried to
keep things a bit decent

and about me looks, check out the who are you topic. im hot

Sounds almost similar to my story
Me and my girl have been best of friends for a long time (well almost 2 years but its a long time in an International School like I'm in). And for a long time thats all we were REALLY good friends. I realized I had feelings for her so I told her, however she didn't express the same feelings back. I didn't have a problem with it as we had a great relationship, so either way it didn't really bother me. Anyway around Xmas last year, for some stupid reason i decided I didn't want to be her friend anymore, and basically told her just that. She dated another guy and we kinda drifted apart. After a month or two of not talking, she approached me telling me she wanted to patch things up, I was hesitant at first but slowly we got back on track.

I knew it would be a bad thing if I got feelings for her again, but life took its course and it happened, however I knew that she would be leaving at the end of the year(school year IE end of July sometime). This time things were different, and we are now "together", but not "going out" as that makes things more complicated when it comes to her leaving 'apparently'. And it came out, at during the time I had confessed my feelings for her a while ago, that she did have feelings for me to, but due to certain things didn't think it would of worked between us. However I don't regret that we have waited until now to get together, as it wouldn't be as "exciting".

We've basically decided (although we do have VERY deep feelings for one another) that we aren't going to stay together when she leaves, just because we are young (and who wants to be stuck in a long distance relationship when your young ), and without much to base a long term to relationship on (3 months or so) it would just be kind of foolish.

Hopefully the following year, I will be returning home also (to britain), maybe something will happen again, maybe it wont, but I'm just going to enjoy the time I've got left with her now We went to prom together (matching in colors of course) and I took 'our' song for the DJ to play, and it was just magical, the dance floor to ourselves for a slow dance together:love:

And that...with all the missing words (probably, I always miss key words out when I type alot for some reason) grammar and spelling mistakes....is my story

I am single.

I like someone.

Alot.

She's 22. Only gotten to 1st base with her so far. We've been friends for years and years. I just don't get to see her so often at the moment because she lives like 4 hours away. Oh and it makes it doubly hard to spend time with her because she's got 3 kids.

That's my story lol.

Ok here is my story.

At the moment i'm single and very happy to be singe.
In February I split up with my ex boyfriend we were together for 8 and a half years. We got together when I was 17 and he was 21. He played computer games (and I hated it) Hated computers, hated games. Hated that he would play games more then he would be with me. So I though if you can't beat em, join em About 4 years into the relationship, he started working at a lan centre. They had 24 pc all with games on them So one day I decided that I would try playing CS And I enjoyed playing, so it was DoD, CoD, BF1942 and then CoH, WoW, and SRO. Now I only play WoW. (Well that is how I got into gaming)

Also around that time, I was going to break up with him. Coz I didn't see us going anywhere. Then I fell pregnant and lost the baby (hardest time of my life) He was there for me, as I was in such a mess. Relised that he did mean alot to me and we decided to try and make it work.

Then a few months before we actually split up, I started chatting to guys over the net (spose it was boredom) And one of these guys he caugh me chatting to. He said he forgave me, but im not sure he really did. Well anyway things didn't get any better in the relationship. He said he needed a break and for me to move out for 2 weeks. I was crying for like a week and then I decided that maybe it would be best just to end it and that was 14th February (Valentines day) That I sent him a txt msg on my phone.

Well that is my story. I think I still love him, but as in friends. Spose you can't be with some1 for that long and not have any feeling towards them.

Bastet once you've loved someone there's always a soft spot there for them. Even when you hate so many things about them, there'll always be that little spot...

...well at least for me.

Ok here is mine

Well in 6th grade me and this girl started to go out....we were friends all the way from 2nd grade till we started dating....

so we went out for about a year and a half and then one day she decided to end it for some reason. she never said why.

so with us being really close friend for about 4 years before we started going out i thought that we could still be friends right....well we really havnet talked or anything since she decided to end it.

i tried to talk to her on AIM (yes i used aim ) but she wouldnt ever talk to me and then she never came on. so i got a new s/n and added her to see if she blocked me and she did

its weird....i still like want to be friends with her since we were so close before/while we were dating.

i dont really see her much at skool since we have no classes together but i see her everyday twice a day when were walking in the halls going to class....sadly we are walking in opposite directions so i dont get a chance to try to talk to her....

btw ill be 17 in bout 3 months so i guess im still young...

got any ideas on how we can become friends again

huh my love life is soooo screwd up that i could write a book about it... so i'll just pass this one out


@Bastet

i know you for almost a year now and i still manage to find something new about u (ment that in a good way )

Very simplied version.
Went to prom with this beatiful girl, but things didnt "click".
Tried to fix it, but you cant add chemistry. She wanted to be just friends. Then asked out her best friend who I went out with before and her response was that it would be better if we didnt go out.
Yea.
lol

Single and wondering if I'll ever find "her". I haven't had any serious long-term relationships and I can count the girls I've really wanted to be with on one hand, with fingers to spare. I've been told my standards are too high, that I take things too seriously, that I need to get on "the dating scene" and have some meaningless casual fun. I'm just not interested in that, and I can't make myself be interested in it.

ive had one gf all my life

started in 7th grade, i liked her, she thought i was smart and we started hanging out. Soon things turned intimate in high school. She moved in my junior yr, and i've never forgot about her, and we've never broken up. I still im her and stuff. I've had chances w/ a couple other girls but its never worked as well as my first so i've never really considered them my gfs as i didnt go out w/ them too long. As far as i know, she still hasnt gotten another bf.... yeah

-el fin-

I'm really in love with a girl whom I know for 1 year now. Although we wanted to be together, we can't, due to the fact that she's married. ( She's married when we knew each other for 7 months. ) But still, she spent most of her time chatting with me now. Not that she's unfaithful to her husband, but, it's because her husband is stewpid and always mad at her without any reason. I feel like killing her husband. .LOL.

She once told me that she never loved somebody like how she loved me.

Now, I'm single though. lol.

Same except the meaningless casual fun.


Charlie Sheen FTW!

Lol. Well...Thanks for writing this for me. I just have to copy and paste...

@ Bastet, i am really sorry about your child whom was lost, i really am. I know how it feels, it totally messes up your life for a certain period. (depends on how fast you can get over it and move on with your life )

Personally i can't imagine anything worse then losing your own child, especially for the woman.

I've had something like it but that's a bit too personal to tell.

Anyway my relationship is very serious, im very grown up and mature for my age as most people i know say. It's not just a girlfriend i hang out with untill 1 decides it all won't work and says 'its over man, bye'.

Unless it's with homegirl who I spoke about above, I wanna be single through college.

Santa Baraba CA is one big ass crazy party town. So many college kids. I don't need no girlfriend holdin me down. I get so fuct up and out of it I'd end up cheating too - at least I think that's quite a possibility. Lots of hot girls out there, and what can I say, I do attract.

I'd sign my life over to that girl I have a thing for though. Obviously it's more than just a thing, I just understate.

Anyway I'm used to hanging around girls older than me, at least 21...so the one's my age usually seem kinda immature.

I've only had one boyfriend.

We've been dating for 3 years.

Nice. Sounds like a good relationship.

What's nice is that I'm going to be close enough to visit him during college. hehe

No story to it kitty ?

Long story short, we've been childhood friends, 3 years ago he asked me out. ^^

ah.. ok

anyway you going back to real life ? (siggy)

If yes, hope you're going to make a good bye topic

I've had crashes/liked some girls.
Went out, had fun.
But never really loved.

wow, that bad

ROFL!

crashes on girls xDDDDDD

I don't think you understood what i ment about crash.
you never been with a girl that's so hot before and felt that you want her?!
Well then you're messing so much.

i know what it meant but i was thiking of it the literal way...
crashes on girls---funny

Crashing a car into a girl?

Why'd you think of that?

Lol latent psychotic tendancies?