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How the heck do you do "farming" i want to know because i always struggle to get enough sp to get extra skills if you would get back to me, (and explain it so a beginner understands) i'll be very grateful

Please check the Stickies first, and use the Search button before you post a new thread.

However, to answer your question, you could read through these Guides about farming, gaps, and masteries:
http://www.silkroadforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=1243
http://www.silkroadforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=1243 (My personal favorite).

Once you get past the basic concept:
http://www.silkroadforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=4796
http://www.silkroadforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=4796

For information about how much SP you'll get at a certain level with a certain gap:
http://stud3.tuwien.ac.at/~e0125557/sro/spep.html

^_^ sorry it was just frustrating me that people talking about 9 gaps and stuff ^_^ thank you for the help your personal favorite cleared everything up for me now to start the game again because i screwed up my first character but i learned about all the abilities and what i want my character to do blah blah blah i talk to much c ya

Anytime.
Before you start over, though, you might want to take a look through this Sticky:
http://www.silkroadforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=19902

Read up on a build that you think you might be going, because SP farming isn't all there is to building a successful character. The Guides might help. If you don't read a Guide, you might find later in the game that you start over again.