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5 months ago , i decided to go to an art school, and i did
they put me in a group where i'm the only male.
i liked a girl in my group, and after a while we had an exam and i got my opportunity to talk to her.
i started talking about drawing and bla bla bla , then i got her phone number and mail.
after a while she started telling me about problems with her boyfriend , i was like wtf what boyfriend, but i was just a friend so i had to keep acting like i'm a friend.
later she told me more about her, and the second wtf was when she told me that she met him 3 times only in a year and she know him over the internet
it was obvious to her that i like her not only as a friend
i just enjoyed talking with her, and that was all i can do
later we had more boys in the group, that wasn't a problem at all until today, i got there (to the art class that we're still in) before her
and when she came she sat beside me as usual, and there was another one on her other side ,she said hi (to him) i told her who's he she told me someone i knew before, she kept talking to him all the time and i was frustrated, he wasn't trying to start a conversation with her at all.. she was starting it, and i didn't talk to her, after the class i was going to tell her that i won't walk home with her for any reason , but she left and didn't even wait for me or say bye
she was a b*tch today, i don't know why, and i don't know how should i react... not talk to her again , ask her why she did this or act normally and see what she do

tl;dr : a girl i liked disappointed me for no reason

Just act normal. If she doesn't have a boyfriend anymore, and you like her, you should start making moves son!

So what advice do you want from us or did SRF got promoted to something almost but not quite unlike twitter.

she still have a boyfriend :/

is there some rule in srf against asking for advice? or i shouldn't post this just because you don't like it !!

Of course not, but you just posted some incoherent story and then ended.

Usually when you want advice, you ask a specific question after the incoherent mess. But you didn't and thus I (and others) can't give you advice as you didn't ask any barring the vague thread title.

i think this is his question.

act like your normal self.

I must have missed it due to lack of punctuation.

ignore her.

It's painfully that you're not going to be more than her than a friend. If she's talking to you about boyfriend troubles, that means she sees you as comfortable and safe.

Boyfriends aren't comfortable and safe. You're in the friend zone bro.

Also, you're most likely reading too far into it. The fact that she "disappointed" you over something small means you need to stop back and really take a look at it.

tl;dr Welcome to the friend zone.

cpinney ignores all girls!

Fixed.

jk ily cpinney<3

age?

i do if they are bitches

Stand up in the middle of class with a pair of scissors and cut off one of your ears for her.

You probably missed your opportunity and also girls can start hating you for no reason. I had a really close friend who all of a sudden just hated to even see me. After a year we started talking again and she said she had no idea why she started to hate me

i would just not think about it, i've done it before

This one made me LoL, but I'd think he'd have better odds if he were to fap in front of her like cpinney usually does to his mates.

Situation at worst: You got friend zoned.

Situation at best: It's her attempt to make you jealous, girls tend to like guys with confidence, get off your ass and do something. But hey, what do I know :/ I'm 16 and I have never had a girlfriend, and I'm currently in the situation of being eternally lonely...[rants on and on about being lonely and depressed]

You're in art school and you talked about drawing and you're wondering why she's talking to some other guy? Also you're jealous and possessive already? Do you really think she wants to be with someone like you, someone who'll forbid her from communicating with other/new people?

edit: bah, dom pretty much summed it up. :<

Girls like to pick and choose. It doesn't matter if she had a bf or not, she would go to the best guy whenever she found one. As long as she didn't married, she could say bye bye to her bf anytime. Of course, you have to let her know your feeling.

I would do the same,most of the time girls saw you like your friend dude,and for some reasons they prefer ass holes. The only think you will gain is a broken heart

she know that i like her, and that i'm not just a friend, but she keep acting like i'm.
sometimes i directly ask her to stop talking about him when she talk too much, if she can't get the flirting that would have made her understand

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that's what i was thinking about too, and i'm trying to convince myself that she is attempting to make me jealous, idk if that's true.. but she know that she's not a friend to me

i don't like making up anything to talk about so i waited for a chance which was an exam, of course i can't talk about anything but art in this situation, and later we didn't talk about drawing even in class and we talekd about everything else.
also i'm not that possessive, she totally ignored me all the time, didn't wait for me to leave with her like we do everytime, and she saw that i'm not happy with that and kept acting like nothing wrong.

i'm already feeling confused and in a bad mood, if i ignore her now i'd feel like that everytime i remember her for the rest of my life
if i had to ignore her, i will do that when i'm ok with her , but not after she ignored me first

heres something I wrote about girls in another thread


Step one**: Find a girl who is happy to see you, someone who already likes you. . .they give you signals look for them, for example; when you walk up to her, she shows you some good eye contact and smiles at you tries to sit next to or near you all the time etc. . . etc. .

step two: have a conversation get her number etc...(preferably that day if you have a good convo going on)

step three: Take her out to coffee, and get to know her. . .(this requires you to be interested in HER not just her tatas/vagoooooo)invite her to your dorm room to watch some movies if its going well

Step four: make a move (easy just land a kiss on her while you're watching the movie...duh)**

Step five: ????

Step six: Profit

**note these steps only work if you have completed step one CORRECTLY**

you pretty much failed at step one if shes telling you about her boyfriend problems(meaning she doesn't like you), Id suggest one of two things

1)find another group-that way you don't have to think about that girl as she wont be in your face

2)deal with yourself! and next time she talks about her bf probs tell her you dont want to talk about that.

Dealing with yourself in regards to her, try to think of the things you like about her and milk that feeling, dont worry about being her bf or anything like that, just think about enjoying her company.

that frees you up to bang the other women that may like you that you haven't noticed.(it is an all female class. . .*cough*youshouldhavebangedatleasttengirlsbynow*cough*)

At ANY given venue, At the LOWEST rate, there's a least 10% of the girls that want to slob your nob, and most of them are decent looking and some are hot.

and THEY LET YOU KNOW who they are! The ones who don't. . .they don't want anything to do with you and if you keep pushing it you will come off as a creepy stalker.

Your job is this, just look for the signs of women that already want you! they work hard for this shit and most guys just don't have a damn CLUE and it frustrates women off and they become lesbi. . .err *curious* because most of the men they like are pussies now days.

It is YOUR mission to stop women from becoming a lesbian before its too late and the world collapses due to population decline

in other words: MAN UP

tl;dr I'm a virgin

Sounds like you're overreacting. I know I over think everything a girl does, and it sounds like you're doing the same. Give it a bit more time and if you're really still worried.. make a move.

I don't suggest saying she ignored you or you're angry though. She'll most likely take that the wrong way..

Those steps are great for someone who want to satisfy his instinct
i can get that somewhere else, not with her

if you mean i intend to over react i'm not, i was really pissed off and i'm still in a bad mood because of her
i think telling her how i felt will ruin everything, and acting normally would make her think i'm not interested in her,maybe i'll try hinting, or just get her out of my mind

That's overreacting.

it's a natural feeling, can't avoid it

If she saw you're in a bad mood and figured it was because of it, it's natural for her to ignore you afterwards - women are good at that, no one likes possessive people, try to grow up a bit.