So I just finished watching this show on TV about a 19 year old dude who didn't wanted to be a male anymore...He underwent surgery and got the full monty done. I was somewhat amazed when I heard him speak...apart from looking like a girl the dude sounds exactly like a girl...I couldn't believe it.
Then I started to wonder what will happen if he slept with some guy and the guy found out the truth later?....And yes I can honestly say that I wouldav been fooled because this dude looked and sound unbelievably like a girl.
So...what would you do if you slept with a decent looking chick only to find out later that it wasn't actually a girl but a transsexual?
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takolin wrote:
I would never have this issue <3.
Why not?
I don't think I would mind too much if it was just a one night thing, but if I were involved with him/her and then find out later that would suck. As much as I'd like to be tolerant, I just don't think this could float my boat.
I don't think I would mind too much if it was just a one night thing, but if I were involved with him/her and then find out later that would suck. As much as I'd like to be tolerant, I just don't think this could float my boat.
Well it's "hard" to wake up next to a woman if you only sleep with men.
I'm a virgin, so I doubt I'd be able to "tell the difference". Personally though, I'd only sleep with someone if the emotional connections were there (hence still being a virgin >_>) and I would soon pick up on the fact that 'she', is actually a he. But if the love was there.. who knows. I'd probably stick around and let my heart guide me. If you truly loved someone, does gender really matter? *shrugs*
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MrTwilliger wrote:
I'm a virgin, so I doubt I'd be able to "tell the difference". Personally though, I'd only sleep with someone if the emotional connections were there (hence still being a virgin >_>) and I would soon pick up on the fact that 'she', is actually a he. But if the love was there.. who knows. I'd probably stick around and let my heart guide me. If you truly loved someone, does gender really matter? *shrugs*
Oh gawd lol. There are some stuff you should keep by yourself you know, but I don't blame you :o
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iv always said to my mates if i pulled someone and found out they are either post op or somewhere inbetween ops they have tits and a dick, id mate them sleep on the sofa end of the day they are going to find it 100 times harder if they start off the convo im pre/post op atleast if they go back to yours or theirs you have had time to get to know them, i wouldnt kick them out not saying id sleep with them cus thats kind of nasty but id least get to know them as a friend never know the mangina might be very tight if it did ever lead down that road. unless your an utter dick its hard to judge this one, they are only trying to be happy you know its not fair for them to instantly have a lable like gays used they hell sometimes stil do they simply deserve a chance.
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I'm a virgin, so I doubt I'd be able to "tell the difference". Personally though, I'd only sleep with someone if the emotional connections were there (hence still being a virgin >_>) and I would soon pick up on the fact that 'she', is actually a he. But if the love was there.. who knows. I'd probably stick around and let my heart guide me. If you truly loved someone, does gender really matter? *shrugs*
Oh gawd lol. There are some stuff you should keep by yourself you know, but I don't blame you :o
Why should I keep it to myself, though? At the end of the day what separates us from women are some personality traits and a few pieces used for reproduction. Now if you are in love with that persons personality, than finding out they are a man shouldn't bother you. They are still the same person, just the trust factor has dropped a little.
As far as the 'bits' are concerned, fake boobs are everywhere now days. I know so many girls with implants and I can say that the work isn't shoddy at all. And people have been sticking their dicks in synthetic holes ever since we made the technology to do so. Pies, teddy bears, flesh lights, you name it and someone has had sex with it. What's the difference between a mangina and a flesh light? They are both man made vaginas used to replicate the original. Who knows, it might even be a little kinky
I'm a virgin, so I doubt I'd be able to "tell the difference". Personally though, I'd only sleep with someone if the emotional connections were there (hence still being a virgin >_>) and I would soon pick up on the fact that 'she', is actually a he. But if the love was there.. who knows. I'd probably stick around and let my heart guide me. If you truly loved someone, does gender really matter? *shrugs*
Oh gawd lol. There are some stuff you should keep by yourself you know, but I don't blame you :o
It's called pansexual. They don't care on gender.But for some people it just doesn't feel right. People are lesbians because they have the attraction to women not men. Same hetrosexuals. It depends on what gender you are attracted to. Would you date a person you were not attracted to?
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I read Tucker max's book and talks about how he might have slept with one. The only give away was that she was really dry and needed a lot of lube but that isn't that rare among real women.
My dad used to have these tapes called "amazing Asia" where they showed **** up shit. One of them was the uncut and uncensored surgery. They showed how they cut it and form it into a vulva.
And pansexual is not bisexual, there's a HUGE difference.
And pansexual is not bisexual, there's a HUGE difference.
Amarisa wrote:
MrTwilliger wrote:
If you truly loved someone, does gender really matter? *shrugs*
It's called pansexual. They don't care on gender. But for some people it just doesn't feel right. People are lesbians because they have the attraction to women not men. Same hetrosexuals. It depends on what gender you are attracted to. Would you date a person you were not attracted to?
To your new post. It's personal preference.
I know that's exactly what I stated.
bisexual likes both genders pansexuals doesn't care about gender it's about the person they care about.
Well I'd be upset...and probably punch the dude....I don't want to have an homosexual experience. I'm perfectly fine with people and their sexual orientation and freedom of choice. I'll even help defend their rights. But just because I'm tolerant doesn't mean I deserve to be tricked into having sex with a man.
I see some comments about its no big deal and that because you had feelings for the person or even love the person it shouldn't really matter. I call bullshit. The person whom you thought you've developed feelings for was masquerading as someone else. Its true that the affection they showed you in the beginning was real but if a regular looking man started to show you that same affection you'd probably tell him no thanks.
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Well I'd be upset...and probably punch the dude....I don't want to have an homosexual experience. I'm perfectly fine with people and their sexual orientation and freedom of choice. I'll even help defend their rights. But just because I'm tolerant doesn't mean I deserve to be tricked into having sex with a man.
I see some comments about its no big deal and that because you had feelings for the person or even love the person it shouldn't really matter. I call bullshit. The person whom you thought you've developed feelings for was masquerading as someone else. Its true that the affection they showed you in the beginning was real but if a regular looking man started to show you that same affection you'd probably tell him no thanks.
Assuming their operation went all the way, they're not dudes anymore.
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takolin wrote:
BuDo wrote:
Well I'd be upset...and probably punch the dude....I don't want to have an homosexual experience. I'm perfectly fine with people and their sexual orientation and freedom of choice. I'll even help defend their rights. But just because I'm tolerant doesn't mean I deserve to be tricked into having sex with a man.
I see some comments about its no big deal and that because you had feelings for the person or even love the person it shouldn't really matter. I call bullshit. The person whom you thought you've developed feelings for was masquerading as someone else. Its true that the affection they showed you in the beginning was real but if a regular looking man started to show you that same affection you'd probably tell him no thanks.
Assuming their operation went all the way, they're not dudes anymore.
As far as I was concerned, yes, they are.
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Well I'd be upset...and probably punch the dude....I don't want to have an homosexual experience. I'm perfectly fine with people and their sexual orientation and freedom of choice. I'll even help defend their rights. But just because I'm tolerant doesn't mean I deserve to be tricked into having sex with a man.
I see some comments about its no big deal and that because you had feelings for the person or even love the person it shouldn't really matter. I call bullshit. The person whom you thought you've developed feelings for was masquerading as someone else. Its true that the affection they showed you in the beginning was real but if a regular looking man started to show you that same affection you'd probably tell him no thanks.
Assuming their operation went all the way, they're not dudes anymore.
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