do you keep contact

I Am Vegeta · **Posted:** Sat Jun 02, 2012 10:18 pm

do you keep contact with your exs or girls you slept with once its over?

Gaigemasta · **Joined:** Dec 2006 **Posts:** 4474 **Location:**

Depends on the ex really. My first long relationship (3 1/2 years) ended badly so we don't talk. One after that last for 3 months and we're still friends as it was mutual. Then my last relationship (2 1/2 years) is the mother of my son :sohappy:

We don't really talk though, only when it has to do with my son. (btw, my last ex, is the one who was kidnapped and I made a thread about it :palm:

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Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

Wait, there's a mini Gaige running around somewhere?!? How cayoot.

penfold1992 · **Joined:** Apr 2007 **Posts:** 4060 **Location:**

ended badly?... u rapist.

.curve · **Posted:** Sun Jun 03, 2012 2:29 am

Actually both of my exes from the two serious relationships I had(3+ years) are very close friends of mine.

Skyve · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 7328 **Location:** Canada

Funny this comes up because I'm in a similar situation. My relationship with her is over and we haven't spoken for weeks. She's leaving for Holland in two months. :giveup:

I Am Vegeta · **Posted:** Sun Jun 03, 2012 3:26 am

being a jealous person i usually just end all communication with them, even though we're in good terms.

some of them get really angry about it lol.

MrTwilliger · **Joined:** May 2008 **Posts:** 1374 **Location:** Hiding

I'm friends with all my ex's, par one who wishes to have nothing to do with me. My theory is, if I bonded with them enough to date them and feel a connection with them than I bond enough with them to be friends. This has pretty much been the situation over the years and I'm close friends with a lot of my ex's.

.curve · **Posted:** Sun Jun 03, 2012 8:17 am

MrTwilliger wrote:

I'm friends with all my ex's, par one who wishes to have nothing to do with me. My theory is, if I bonded with them enough to date them and feel a connection with them than I bond enough with them to be friends. This has pretty much been the situation over the years and I'm close friends with a lot of my ex's.

Essentially this, word for word.

Isis · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 4171 **Location:**

I don't keep in contact with either of my ex's, the first one (we were together for eight and a half years) normally just exchange a few text messages here and there, like over Christmas and birthday's. The other one, for all I care he's dead! We were going to stay friends after we split up, as we were on and off for a few years and were friends as well. But I found out that he started seeing some girl that is 10 years younger then him, about a week after we split up. That was six months ago, I've just started a new relationship, and we're both very happy.

rek · **Posted:** Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:41 pm

i work with her

rather not though

BuDo · **Joined:** Dec 2008 **Posts:** 4714 **Location:**

I kept in contact with my ex for a year or more and it was as if we never broke it off because we still did everything we used to do when we were official....just not as much... Breaking up has the effect of making you wanting the person more (depending on the situation) because now she is my girl again and has been for the past 4 years. I think tho if we had seen other people during our break up we wouldn't be together today. I guess we're meant to be.

Mirosuke · **Posted:** Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:58 pm

Didn't see her in a while, but we are good friends. I'm just happy with my actual girlfriend (1 1/2 years)

iSinnnn · **Posted:** Sun Jun 03, 2012 11:14 pm

i hardly care enough to work at maintaining relationships with the average person, let alone a potentially strained or awkward one. if there's a perfectly clean break maybe i guess - haven't come across that yet though.

.curve · **Posted:** Tue Jun 05, 2012 4:32 am

iSinnnn wrote:

i hardly care enough to work at maintaining relationships with the average person, let alone a potentially strained or awkward one. if there's a perfectly clean break maybe i guess - haven't come across that yet though.

You cold-hearted man. Respect.

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