Add some clarification on things
I liked SRO a lot, and I am an admin on other sites like TheHelper and World Editor Tutorials (see affiliates) so I also started a forum for silkroad.
Ironically, within the first week someone came and posted about how the forum was a complete waste of time
Wong was correct, I was in a large cool union. I didnt get along well with a few people in my guild, and there was aruging and insult every day. The leader, my real life friend, wasn't on much anymore do to real life, and wasnt there to sort the problems or put the foot down. As things deteriorated and I grew tired of being shouted at by 16 year old kids, I second guessed where I was - and eventually left.
Although invited, I couldnt rejoin my former alliance (or other guilds in it) because I am a star-popper and I don't plan on changing that; I robbed more people in a day than most do in a week.
Some came with, we formed a new guild, which is now level 5, and has 48 members with 4 or more on the waiting list.
Stayed friends with most of the old union, but over the months as more and more robbed or killed me, they were slowly deleted from the friends list, with SuicideGrl (supermod!) being the only one on it now.
There was a short period where I shut the forum down. Someone in my guild took screenshots of everything I said about the star popping issue, and passed it around to people on the forum, made threads about it in the forum, and somewhat "blackmailed" me with through PM. The drama involved in running a forum this large - for free - was no longer worth the effort.
A good lesson learned is that no matter what people say ingame, they have no real impact on your life or whether or not your boss signs your paycheck.
In Warcraft, my IGN was well known, but in that game you rarely run into the same people twice. Its not like an MMORPG ( this is my first one) where people knowing your IGN can have much consequence and drama. If I could do it all again no one would know who I am =) But its a bit late for that, less I ditch my level 70 char.