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No, just castrate him and say, "No more babies for you!" in a soup nazi kind of way nawmeen?

Please don't say "guys" or "men" as if we're all like him. I for one would never in a thousand years treat any woman like that pathetic scum bag has treated all of you.

You are way better off without him.

quoted for the truth and smecyness

Yeah, I agree. But you have to realize when some people are as upset as she is, they kind of see all of us the same. I too would never do a thing like this to anyone. Right now she just needs to be able to settle down and clear her head as hard as it is. Venting always does help though, hopefully this is helping her out somewhat.

Omg what an jerk............

If i lived near you i would get an group of girls and kick his a$$.... No realy i would really kick him in the <Place>

But hell every girl has her story..... Hope you will get better... And next time when you see him tell him that some girl on the other side of the world old you that he is the most retarded idiot alive

All men are same... but there are some that are lil better and others that are worst...

Hey im just tring to make her feel beter and the thing i said is 50% true...

some are just givin the others a bad name

been in a similar situation, minus the pregnancy. was engaged. cut contact, they don't deserve a chance

WTF? With his foster sister?


damn , some of us suck!.....=X the hell with him!

one thing is good foster sister and him are not relative in the family..But anyway is wrong when they crow up whit each other and was like a family ....And after have relation chip whit each other Is bad thing..

But I cant judge when he is not real relative to her,
But if someone hit him whit -->
he maybe understend it is wrong .. And she to really.

Thank you all so much for not being "omg stupid teenage girl drama bullshit". I called Jon and told him off. I made him cry, and he cried hard. It fels so good to hear him crying, after putting up with his lies for so long. To sum it up, I told him he's immature, moronic, and he had no right to call himself a man.. and myself, his own mother, and all the rest of us girls that got played all told him we were disgusted by him.. and all the other girls he's been flirting hardcore with now know what he's been doing and thanked us for letting them know what a douchebag he is. He cried, and he has NONE of the girls he's been getting close to, and my brother also kicked him out of the apartment. His foster sister and I talked on the phone for hours, and we both decided that it'd be best if she charges child support.. and it turns out one of the other girls is pregnant as well, so he's got a lot of money to be giving out. He screwed himself over.
I love him to death, but I honestly think he needs to lose everything he has for a while before he will understand the degree of what he's done.

moral of the story is:
Hurt Ito and and you get farked over hardcore

I agree with HTVHitokiri's first post, but I'm going to go farther.

You need to figure out why you were with this guy in the first place. And don't tell just yourself "I had no idea this was going on" because you did. There is a part of you that wanted to be treated like this. This guy was a dick, make no mistake, but you were a willing participant in this which is even more obvious when you say something like:

"I want to just walk away. I honestly truly do but there's a little feeling I get that makes me think that maybe, just maybe this time he's isn't lying..."

If you make the mistake of seeing yourself as the innocent victim in all this, you are bound to make this mistake again. Figure out what need of yours this guy filled and fix it. If this was your first bad relationship, make it your last.

Please don't read this and think I'm being an ass. When you get to be my age, you've seen girls make these mistakes over and over and over again. I'm telling you this because I don't want you to make this mistake again. You are at the beginning of what can be a terrible cycle of self-destructive behavior. Don't let that happen.

uh ooh... we will keep that in mind

you made the right choice girl!

100% true. some people have to realize what its like to get hurt. I for one did REALLY love my ex-gf. well, anyways, she cheated on me, some guy named vali. she told me after a few weeks, but she gave a **** on my feelings. she just made an end to our relationship.

well. i managed to forget her. its 1 and a half year ago, and i finally found some amazing girl. and guess what? i just chatted with my ex again. she just got owned. vali finally told her that he didnt ever love her, and that he had 2 other girls beside her.

it was SUCH A GOOD FEELING to see her hurt like i've been. im so fulfilled in my relationship, and now shes the whos farked.

moral of my story:
just go on, you'll be the lucky one soon! and he will have to pay forever. just think of that, and the fact that NOT all guys are the same. you'll find someone who deserves you.

Dont worry skittles girl. ill always love you.

Srry to know that happened...dam thats pretty crazy.
Anyways, i swear i could say the same thing about girls xD

Lol, I love you Ice. You're so cool
You, me, and t3mo need to move to a different country and be cool together, me thinks.
=/=

Anyway.

He showed up at my house this afternoon, flowers, candy, and even a ring, and I laughed at him and turned him away.. I asked how many girls he's done the same thing to, and he was speechless. I'm not a dumbass.
Can't believe he thought i'd go for it -.-;

Although, it did kinda hurt to know he can look me in the eyes and tell me he loves me after all of the things I know now. And for a fleeting second, I almost felt bad for cutting ties with him..
but again, I was in love with someone I thought I knew, and he is not the person he fabricated.. so that's what made it easy to turn him away.
One of his best friends told me today:
"He isn't who I thought he was either. So many of us are disappointed in him, and if we had all known he was hiding it from you we would have put a stop to it. As much as you complained and suspected, we thought you knew everything and were trying to make peace with it. I've known him since fifth grade, but I don't know that Jon at all."

Sad story and all, but if you really think all boys/men suck go lesbian.

xD

dont :P

Well it's true init?

That's something I wouldn't do to my gf or any other girl for that matter. Well perhaps make someone pregnant, but at least I wouldn't cheat on my gf. I never cheated on one of my gfs. I just broke up with them and get the new gf on the same day. imo that's better

I have been in a beautiful relationship for 6 months.

But it wasn't always popcorn and relaxing on the couch watching a movie..

The most important thing is that you learn from it.

+1

haha ... wow... laugh in his face, and tell him to f-off, especially if he has said he doesnt like all the other girls, and is in love with you, break his heart like he did to you, Karma's a bitch.

DAM, saint the pic in ur sig is making me horny lmao. oh yea srry bout wat happened to u ito. Lol im only 14, so I dont know wat kind of advice to give to you. I hope you find someone better.

good to know...*sigh*
anyways ito, try to not think too much about it, just let it flow
Didnt got the chance to tell ya that in msn xD