What age were you when you lost your..

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

BTW I regret my first time. I coulda done much better, but alcohol is the enemy... :banghead:

Disconn3cted · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3293 **Location:** WV, USA

16 only time because then i started playing sro all day lol

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

TwelveEleven wrote:

[SD]Master_Wong wrote:

:oops: 17, single and not had it yet my only chance thus far was when i was 15 but her little sister was in and out of her room it wasnt right

Well, the thing is, when you go out. Don't start looking for a girl to have sex with. Just act as if you're only there for the fun and the booze, girls are attracted to you this way much sooner. For example, this friday I wanted to go/went out. But I didnt even make it to the pub, on the way there I met a 2 girls who were a bit drunk and didn't know the way home. I said I didn't know where they lived, and a lot of blabla. In the end they went home with me. We drank a bit, took a bath. And then it just happens.
You shouldn't do it just for the sex though. Imho having sex with someone you love (especially when it's the first time) makes it WAY more special than just having sex for the sake of it.

Having sex with somebody you have feelings for is a completely different experience than having sex with somebody you merely think is cute.

[SD]Master_Wong · **Posted:** Sun Jul 15, 2007 11:03 pm

TwelveEleven wrote:

[SD]Master_Wong wrote:

:oops: 17, single and not had it yet my only chance thus far was when i was 15 but her little sister was in and out of her room it wasnt right

Well, the thing is, when you go out. Don't start looking for a girl to have sex with. Just act as if you're only there for the fun and the booze, girls are attracted to you this way much sooner. For example, this friday I wanted to go/went out. But I didnt even make it to the pub, on the way there I met a 2 girls who were a bit drunk and didn't know the way home. I said I didn't know where they lived, and a lot of blabla. In the end they went home with me. We drank a bit, took a bath. And then it just happens.
You shouldn't do it just for the sex though. Imho having sex with someone you love (especially when it's the first time) makes it WAY more special than just having sex for the sake of it.

tbh im not all that interested in sex id much rather a nice calm relationship

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

What about a nice calm relationship with lots of sex...?

Wow some people amaze the hell out of me.

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

Blahblah wrote:

Having sex with somebody you have feelings for is a completely different experience than having sex with somebody you merely think is cute.

+1

TwelveEleven · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3806 **Location:** Heaven

[SD]Master_Wong wrote:

tbh im not all that interested in sex id much rather a nice calm relationship

Glad to hear that, and when you are in such a relationship. Please don't rush it, and when you think you are both ready you should first discuss it. Try bringing it up slowly, and have a spine when you are talking about it.

Before you go in this discussion make sure you know what you are going to say/want to say. Think of the possible reactions, and how you are going to react to that. This way you will seem way more sure about doing it.

@choco Agreed

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

Blahblah?

That's like calling me 'guy'.

That shit get's on my nerves. Could you not do that again?

HyorunmarouZ · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 1839 **Location:** Hell.

Locketart wrote:

I'm 19 and still haven't lost it. I might wait until marriage too or until I really love someone.

I agree, haven't done it and don't plan to do it anytime soon, because i don't know someone who i love enough to think about it. I am 18 by the way.

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Blahblah?

That's like calling me 'guy'.

That shit get's on my nerves. Could you not do that again?

Ok...'man'.

j/p, sure thing.

[SD]Master_Wong · **Posted:** Sun Jul 15, 2007 11:08 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:

What about a nice calm relationship with lots of sex...?

Wow some people amaze the hell out of me.

all my mates have had sex they say its good but tbh but sex will come in due time with a calm relationship

TwelveEleven · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3806 **Location:** Heaven

HyorunmarouZ wrote:

Locketart wrote:

I'm 19 and still haven't lost it. I might wait until marriage too or until I really love someone.

I agree, haven't done it and don't plan to do it anytime soon, because i don't know someone who i love enough to think about it. I am 18 by the way.

Always glad to hear stuff like this. If you don't think you are ready to do it yet. Or more importantly don't feel ready, don't. Just wait till you are. Keep a healthy relationship in the meanwhile and discuss it with your girlfriend. This will help you more than most people think

BlackFox · **Posted:** Sun Jul 15, 2007 11:09 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:

What about a nice calm relationship with lots of sex...?

yea but not 24/7 .. :roll:

or you want it ? even if is a nice calm relationship .

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

[SD]Master_Wong wrote:

Blackchocob0 wrote:

What about a nice calm relationship with lots of sex...?

Wow some people amaze the hell out of me.

all my mates have had sex they say its good but tbh but sex will come in due time with a calm relationship

The thing with me is that I HAD to enjoy my youth...calmness can come when we're both 80ish.

I believe there needs to be a balance between friendship, romance, and passion for a relationship to work.

"It can't be looove, if you throw it abouuuut!"

Love the person? They love you? Go for it.

Just...PLEASE don't do it if you or they don't care about you/them. It'll just hurt the both of you.

TwelveEleven · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3806 **Location:** Heaven

Well said draquish, well said.

Wong, if you wan't to wait, please do. Even if your mates start to 'torture' you with how great it is. It is a great experience but it isn't something you should throw it all away for.

Sharp324 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 4383 **Location:**

Agree would really rather have the first time with someone i love rather than some girl i wont remember

TwelveEleven · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3806 **Location:** Heaven

I think most people here are more mature then most of the guys I know. Because most of you think love is actually more important than the sex part. (Which I do also) that or we're all just a bunch of girls

[SD]Master_Wong · **Posted:** Sun Jul 15, 2007 11:35 pm

[SD]draquish wrote:

[SD]Master_Wong wrote:

Blackchocob0 wrote:

What about a nice calm relationship with lots of sex...?

Wow some people amaze the hell out of me.

all my mates have had sex they say its good but tbh but sex will come in due time with a calm relationship

The thing with me is that I HAD to enjoy my youth...calmness can come when we're both 80ish.

I believe there needs to be a balance between friendship, romance, and passion for a relationship to work.

"It can't be looove, if you throw it abouuuut!"

Love the person? They love you? Go for it.

Just...PLEASE don't do it if you or they don't care about you/them. It'll hurt the both of you.

oh come on i aint a calm person but i want someone calm to have a nice relationship with

TwelveEleven · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3806 **Location:** Heaven

You don't have to be a 'calm' person to have a calm relationship, or be calm in a relationship. A calm relationship is where you take it slow.

BlackFox · **Posted:** Sun Jul 15, 2007 11:59 pm

[SD]draquish wrote:

I believe there needs to be a balance between friendship, romance, and passion for a relationship to work.

"It can't be looove, if you throw it abouuuut!"

Love the person? They love you? Go for it.

Just...PLEASE don't do it if you or they don't care about you/them. It'll just hurt the both of you.

yea wierd some of it you have true there.. oh shit

Dr.Love · **Joined:** Jul 2007 **Posts:** 11

Threadstarter, I am happy with the way you started/posted in this thread. You did this in a constructive way. No bs talk, and you actually helped people.

There are a few other mature people here. Which is great. I see this can be discussed here without a problem.

MastaChiefX · **Joined:** Nov 2006 **Posts:** 4526 **Location:** Life.

You know what I love?
People who think they are experts in something because they have done it like 5 times.

No.
Your not.

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Mon Jul 16, 2007 12:03 am

nope nope nope not done it yet.

I dunno if it counts with same-sex either (wonders) but either way still proud virgin. I think for all the pointlessness of most things in life love is one of the things that my mind hasn't reduced to chemical equations. So im willing to wait for the right time, with the right person, on the right etc, etc. I don't want to be one of the people on the forum who wish they hadn't dun it cause they were to young, or drunk, or just being stupid....

i guess im a bit of a romantic :roll:

PS: i think 15 is a bit young to be doin stuff...for guys at least i mean at that age there not much to work with down there....seems like a rush thing where you don't have a clue what your doing and will most likely be remembered as one of the most awkward moments in your life all the fumbling and positioning and that moment where she ask "Is it supposed to look like that?" you look down wondering the same thing :roll:

TwelveEleven · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 3806 **Location:** Heaven

MastaChiefX wrote:

You know what I love?
People who think they are experts in something because they have done it like 5 times.

No.
Your not.

Who are you talking to? (I think Dr.Love but not 100% sure)
Anyways don't judge someone before you know him. For all we know he could be 40 with a lot of experience or 20 with a lot of experience or 40 without much experience or 20 without much experience. Just wait to see how it turns out. If it turns out bad you were right, if it turns out good you weren't..

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

*Lost his virginity to a friend.*

We're still friends. Nothing got complicated.

But I regret it - not because of love or a lack of strong feelings toward her, but because I've never ever been sexually attracted to her except for that one night that I can very vaguely remember. I was so drunk I slept with somebody I wasn't even sexually in to. And I don't even remember the night.

Kinda shitty way to lose it but whatever, it's already happened.

I'm pissed I didn't lose my virginity to a fine ass little cutie.

Not that she was ugly...but I set my sights for 7's+ and this girl is like a 5...

And honestly I'm gonna give MastaChief's post a big +1.

Dugu · **Posted:** Mon Jul 16, 2007 12:34 am

You left out still a Virgin, I'm still chaste.

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[SD]Master_Wong · **Posted:** Mon Jul 16, 2007 12:40 am

Blackchocob0 wrote:

I set my sights for 7's+ and this girl is like a 5...

pedo

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

LOL that was actually kinda funny...

dom · **Posted:** Mon Jul 16, 2007 1:31 am

loler @ Older than 30, but younger than 40

I, like many others, only sleep with younger girls. Candy is cheaper then alcohol.

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